WHICH IS MORE BEAUTIFUL?LOVE? OR YOU?

Which is more beautiful? LOVE OR YOU?
What is more precious? LOVE OR YOU?
I ask these questions mainly because people and suffice me to say women place too much premium on LOVE rather than on ourselves and end up hurting...
tell you what? LOVE'S confusing enough; if you the individual is confused about how much value you place or would place on yourself; please try staying clear of LOVE! And that's my OPINION THANK YOU.
I read from one Anna Louise Strong that "To fall in love is easy; even to remain in it is not difficult; our human loneliness is cause enough. But it is a hard quest worth making to find a comrade through whose steady presence one becomes steadily the person one desires to be"
Interesting isn’t it? What is even more interesting is the fact that many of us upon reading this may allude to that fact….Falling in love is that easy, but finding THAT PERSON; A PARTNER, A FRIEND, A COMPANIOIN, A COMRADE? “Niger person would say: It’s not izzy ooo”. And let’s face it people finding THAT PERSON? Is the most difficult and I dare say that most of the time We just settle for the appreciated quantum and well it’s quite understandable especially for the women who have their biological clock to think about with the tick of the second clock.
My point here people so that I do not go round in circles and end up confusing myself and you as well is simply really If you have issues placing premium on yourself you probably would translate this confusion to even your choice of a partner and even on the subject LOVE.
Many books from the Shakespeare’s, The Nora Roberts, and Sydney Sheldon’s, Jackie Collins; name them. All these writers agree beyond reasonable doubt that LOVE is a beautiful thing, maybe they should also underline the fact that Without LOVING YOURSELF, WITHOUT PLACING VALUE ON WHO YOU ARE, YOU WOULD BE LEAD TO ONE WHO EQUALLY WOULD PLACE NO VALUE ON YOU.
SO; AFTER READING THIS PIECE (not very interesting I know) ASK YOURSELF AGAIN, WHICH IS MORE BEAUTIFUL?
LOVE? OR YOU?